If a temporary caregiver wants to keep a child for more than 24 months or knows that the parent will not be able to care for the child after 24 months, the caregiver can seek legal custody of the child. Obtaining third party custody of a child can be a complicated and long process if the parent objects. In order to become the custodian of a child, the caregiver must either be a de facto custodian or an interested third party.
A de facto custodian is a person who has been the primary caregiver for a child residing with the caregiver without the parent being present within 24 months preceding the filing of a third party custody petition.
If the child is between one and three years of age, the parent of the child must not have participated in the child's life for a period of six months or more. This period does not need to be six consecutive months.
If the child is three years of age or older, the parent of the child must not have participated in the child's life for twelve months or more which, again, does not have to be twelve consecutive months.
A de facto custodian does not include a person who has a child placed with him through a custody consent decree, a court order, a voluntary placement decree, or adoption. Minn. Stat. § 257C.01
To be established as a de facto custodian, a caregiver must prove, by clear and convincing evidence, that he or she has met the requirements of living with the child and, by a preponderance of the evidence, that it is in the best interets of the child to be in the custody of the de facto custodian. Minn. Stat. § 257C.03 Subd. 6
An interested third party is an individual who is not a de facto custodian but can show, by clear and convincing evidence, that:
- the parent has abandoned, neglected, or otherwise exhibited disregard for the child's well-being to the extent that the child will be harmed by living with the parent; or
- The placement of the child with the interested third party takes priority over preserving the day-to-day parent-child relationship because of the presence of physical and/or emotional danger to the child; or
- Other extraordinary circumstances exist. Minn. Stat. § 257C.01
An interested third party does not include an individual who has a child placed in the individual's care through a custody consent decree, court order, voluntary placement, or adoption.
In determining an interested third aprty's petition for custody, the court must consider:
- The amount of involvement the interested third party has had with the child during the parent's absence or child's lifetime;
- The amount of involvement the parent had with the child during the parent's absence;
- Whether there are any other interested third parties involved;
- The facts and circumstances of the parent's absence;
- Any refusal of the parent to comply with conditions for retaining custody set forth in previous court orders;
- Whether the parent seeking custody has been prevented from doing so because of domestic violence;
- Whether a sibling of the child is already in the care of the interested third party; and
- Whether a standby custody declaration has been executed. Minn. Stat. § 257C.03 Sub. 7(b)